Questions you might want to ask

• If you could plan it today, what would the last day or week of your life look like?

Who would be there? Where would you like to be?

• What are your ideas and hopes about the end of your life?

• What are your fears or concerns about the process of dying?

• Have you thought about the care you want during a severe illness or as you are

dying?

• Where would you prefer to spend your last days if you are ill? At home, with one

of us, in a hospice, or in the hospital?

• Who do you want to make medical decisions for you if you are unable to speak

for yourself?

• Do you believe that life should always be preserved as long as possible? If not,

what kinds of mental or physical conditions would make you think that life-

prolonging treatment should no longer be used? For example, if you were:

. Unaware of your surroundings

. Unable to appreciate or continue important relationships

. Unable to think well enough to make everyday decisions

. In severe pain or discomfort

• Is there any particular music, flowers, photographs or art you would like to have

around you at the end?

• What are your wishes regarding a funeral? Burial vs. cremation?

Reference : California Coalition for Compassionate Care. www.finalchoices.org